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Embracing failure exposes us to greatness. In this article, you’ll get to know nine reasons why we should learn to embrace failure in life.
In an attempt to achieve a desirable or intended objective, we either find ourselves in a condition of failure or success. Although we tend to reject failure, either of the two is not bad.
Moreover, failure or success comes as a result of even trying, and there are a lot more we can learn from failure than success. While we don’t achieve our desires and objective when we fail, the good news is that embracing failure propels us towards our goals.
But not embracing failure will most likely hinder our journey to greatness. As much as we want to attain greatness, it’s also important to embrace failure, even though embracing failure is a choice.
What does failure mean?
Failure means when intended action results in a lack of success. If something is not functioning, it’s also known as a failure. Failure in life also means omission or neglect of required action.
Reasons why we should learn to embrace failure in life
Here are nine reasons why we should learn to embrace failure in life.
1. Failure results in the success story
Whenever we hear people’s success stories, one thing that is common with them is how many times they failed. But they didn’t let the failure get to them. This is because they embraced failure, and as a result, they were able to overcome failure.
And truly, failure is part of success, irrespective of how people perceive it. Failure itself is about learning. Because when you learn from mistakes, you’re making progress to being an achiever.
For example, Bill Gates’ success story is one of them, and his story is inspiring. He watched his first company called Traf-O-Data crumble, but he didn’t let the failure hold him back.
2. Failure teaches lessons
Failure teaches us that there are reasons for correction after a failure. One of them is that we don’t always have to be right. Another lesson we can learn from failure is that it gives us a good reason to start over again from scratch to achieve the desired result.
It’s on this note we learn that we hold failure against ourselves than others do. Also, failure teaches us that there are better ways to approach things for them to work better.
And if there are lots of ways to do something better, we don’t know what we are capable of achieving until we attempt to try. All these can also hint to us that flexibility matters a lot in all that we do.
3. It makes you good at certain things
One of the best ways to achieve mastery is through constant practice and repeated attempts, and in these lies one failure to another. Besides, repeated attempts at something will give you the ability to be the odds.
The good thing is that each time you make corrections when you fail, you learn not to go back to those mistakes, and you learn how to improve on what you have learned.
And because failure can also make you humble, it makes you willing to learn from the winners, if trial and error to grow yourself don’t align with you. If, however, you can find motivation from what you do, despite the failure, you will improve your skills over time.
4. It makes you understand processes
You become willing to start all over again after failure when you truly understand the process in life like the back of your hands. This is because you understand that there are elements and leverages needed to make the process effective and efficient.
Also, you understand that we need a process to achieve something great. As such, you understand that there is a need to avoid cutting corners.
All these boils down to the fact that if a process in accomplishing something is skipped, it may have repercussions. This makes it important to maintain the process until the desired result is achieved, as this will result in a more favorable outcome.
5. It builds your capacity
It’s also important to know that the amount of quality you can produce also comes from failure. While being good at something can last for some time, capacity, on the other hand, will retain quality and quantity for a longer period.
Consequently, this will boost your level of productivity and success, not just for a short while, but for a long time. Of course, you need skills to get going, but capacity is crucial to attaining lasting accomplishment.
The two play their parts and one can’t do without the other. However, to bring out the best in skills, you need the capacity because it will determine how you’re going to stand out from the crowd.
6. It builds your mental strength
Failing without quitting is a great way to boost mental strength. Mental strength comprises attributes like control, confidence, commitment, and challenge.
Each of the mental strength attributes possesses mini-actions you need to portray to build your mental strength. And because building mental strength is like building muscle, the more you use it, the stronger it grows.
So, how well you control your emotions and how well your life control is when you fail is important. Likewise, how confident, committed, and challenging you are by learning from failure and stretching yourself to do more when you fail will significantly boost your mental strength.
7. You learn by yourself what you can’t learn elsewhere
Although failure is not pleasant to anyone, often, the most important things we can’t learn elsewhere are learned through failure. The only hindrance to it is when we don’t embrace failure in life and learn from them. And worst, when we don’t try either because of the fear of failure.
Doing something unique at first try most likely means you will fail, but because that thing is unique, what you will learn from it will equally be unique.
This is why most people who once tried and failed at some point before success tend to know a lot of what most people don’t know. This could be in broad knowledge or expertise, but in most cases, it pertains to their scope.
8. It sharpens your sixth sense
How well you perceive something from afar and detect the outcome of something also come as a result of failure. It also comes as a result of the attention you give to your dreams and aspirations, and how well you pay attention to your inner mind.
Also, the process of guessing, attention to details, attention to gut feeling, and rejecting what you don’t feel comfortable saying “yes” also play a crucial role in building your sixth sense.
Aside from that, experience matters a lot. Experience can help to build your perception and sharpen your line of thought. So, the person you build yourself into through failure also comes from experience.
9. It makes you humble
Despite the failure before success, it helps to make you humble. Failure makes us understand that we are all humans, as such, every individual matters. This, itself, is enough to make us humble, on the condition that we can accept failures and learn from them.
Besides, failure can indicate that we are humans and that we still have a lot of things to learn in life. It makes us humble enough to consistently grow ourselves as we make effort to improve our areas of improvement.
Humility comes from a degree of wisdom, which we can achieve through failure. And this is why we can take advantage of ideas and opportunities through humility that will result in success.
Not every attempt results in success, but failure, on the other hand, should not be considered as bad, as long as we try. The more we avoid seeing failure as bad and begin to embrace it, the more we expose ourselves to success.
Although failure means a lack of success, something not functioning, or omitting required action, you can turn these around by embracing it. So, if you think it’s not worth embracing failure in life, think of why you need to.Let us connect: